If we are integrated with ourselves, if we are whole, by definition, we are simultaneously integrated with the world.
If we remain divided, split, separated and unintegrated we project our shadow, neuroses, anxieties and fears out onto the world that we imagine we are separate and apart from. This projecting only serves to perpetuate the illusion of separation from the world.
If you find yourself at war with the world you are at war with yourself.

Some of what’s out there in the spiritual world, spoken at times with absolute certitude and authority, strikes me as pure horseshit. It feels to me like the kind of stuff that promotes dissatisfaction, offers false hope, encourages dishonesty and self-deception, and leads people into endless spiritual seeking. I think there’s a lot of horseshit in spiritual culture.

Questioning Everything

Do you think peace requires an end to war?
Or tigers eating only vegetables?
Does peace require an absence from your boss, your spouse, yourself…?
Do you think peace will come some other place than here?
Some other time than Now?
In some other heart than yours?

Peace is this moment without judgment.
That is all. This moment in the Heart-space
where everything that is, is welcome.
Peace is this moment without thinking that it should be some other way, that you should feel some other thing, that your life should unfold according to your plans.

Peace is this moment without judgment, this moment in the Heart-space where everything that is, is welcome.

Peace by Dorothy Hunt

If loss just remains loss and does not permit or allow us to open up our own relationship with life and death, to transform, then we are doomed to remain trapped in unnecessary suffering and terror at our life and our death.